Just for you, __(insert your name here)__: A Stormy Lesson in Influence

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 By Steve Martin, CMCT

 In late October 2012 Hurricane Sandy bulldozed its way through the Caribbean and across the Mid-Atlantic before hitting land again in the North-Eastern United States causing a trail of destruction and devastation in its wake. Violent gusts nearing 100 mph accompanied by lashing rains left widespread damage estimated at over $75 billion. In the aftermath many thousands of individuals as well as organizations such as the American Red Cross and the United Nations marshaled resources towards clean-up and relief operations. Corporations and businesses helped too. A number of network news channels held telethons and appeals that generated millions of dollars in donations.

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The role played by the news networks wasn’t just limited to encouraging contributions towards relief efforts. They were also responsible for generating a series of unofficial names for the hurricane. Snowicane was one such example that served to highlight the projected snow fall that would accompany hurricane Sandy. Frankenstorm was another – a reference to the storm’s close proximity to Halloween.

While I am not aware of any evidence that assigning an unofficial name to a hurricane would have any influence on an individual’s likelihood to support relief efforts, there is evidence of a connection between a hurricane’s official name and some individual’s likelihood to donate.

Not only is this connection surprising, it could offer some important insights into how you persuade others in the future.  

In a 2008 paper published in the journal Judgment and Decision Making, psychology professor Jesse Chandler highlighted an important factor that appeared to influence people’s likelihood to donate to fund raising appeals set up to help hurricane victims. People were more likely to donate if the initial of their first name matched the name given to the hurricane. For example, those whose names began with the letter R, such as Robert or Rosemary, were 260% more likely to donate to the Hurricane Rita relief appeal than those whose name didn’t begin with the letter R. A similar effect was noted after Hurricane Katrina with folks whose name starts with a K significantly more motivated to donate. And so on. In each case a disproportionate number of donations came from those with the same initial as the hurricane. 

In his super interesting new book Drunk TanK Pink, Adam Alter, a Professor of Marketing at NYU’s Stern Business School makes a serious point. If people are more likely to donate to hurricane relief programs that share their initials, then the World Meteorological Organization which is responsible for naming hurricanes has the power to increase charitable giving simply by giving hurricanes more commonly occurring names.         

To dismiss these insights as simply arbitrary would be to dismiss a fundamental feature of our psychology. Our names matter to us.

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We can all recall a time when we have been deep in conversation with someone, maybe at a conference or at a business meeting. We are so focused on what is being said that we are largely oblivious to what’s going on around us. But then we hear our name mentioned from another part of the room and instantly our attention is diverted. It’s almost as if an invisible antenna exists that constantly scans the environment waiting to tune into mentions of our name – a phenomenon psychologists refer to as “The Cocktail Party Effect”.     

Should you need further convincing of how important people’s names are to them, then you might like to try this little experiment next time you’re in a meeting. Simply hand out a sheet of paper to everyone in the room and ask them to write down their 5 favorite letters of the alphabet. If they are anything like the subjects in studies where this has been done, when you review their choices you will likely notice a remarkable similarity between the letters they choose and their own names, especially their initials.

All of which brings us to ask what has this to do with business and influence?

Well, given that an important part of any successful persuasion strategy will be to get people’s attention, at a basic level it seems sensible to use people’s names more often – or at least signal that your request or message has some connection to their name. For example, recent studies have shown that including a person’s first name in a text message reminding them to attend a health appointment or to pay a local tax increases,  response rates significantly compared to sending exactly the same message but without their name.

And as for generating support for a new business initiative or work program, one wonders whether Professor Alter’s hurricane advice might also apply. When it comes to considering what name you should give to that new project of yours you may be tempted to consider an ambiguous, mysterious sounding name in the hope that it will spark interest and get people’s attention. These studies however suggest that you would perhaps receive more support by looking down the list of people who work in the department responsible for implementing your project and choosing a name that most commonly matches theirs. Or at the very least, tally up the most commonly occurring initial among the group and use that as a basis for your project name. 

 

Discussion:

 

Has using someone’s name ever made a difference in your influence attempts? Or perhaps you have been influenced by someone using yours? What happened?

 

We’d love to hear your examples of names given to projects and initiatives? How successful (or not) were they? 

 

 

Sources:

 

Chandler, J., Griffin, T., & Sorensen, N. (2008). In the “I” of the storm: First name initial influences donations to disaster relief efforts. Judgment and Decision Making, 5, 404-410.

 

Alter, A. DRUNK TANK PINK (2013) Penguin Press. New York.

 

Nuttin, J.M. (1985). The name letter effect. European Journal of Social Psychology. 15, 353-361.

  • http://www.facebook.com/therobdale Rob Dale

    Very interesting – especially with the controversy as The Weather Channel picks names (very weird ones) for winter storms…

    • GeorgeMokray

      We’ll see if anyone does any research on whether Neds and Noras donated more because of the Weather Channel decided to name a snowstorm Nemo.

  • Spivaw

    Recently I was car shopping and the called ID is in my wife’s name. The person always answered hello Jane. I was working the deal over the phone so be would not have me on the lot. After the 5th call in a 3 hour period, be still answered, “hello Jane.” Jane was working at the time and this was made clear in each call. I am the only one calling. This discouraged my purchase and I did not buy a car. Also, aggressive sales that are not trained well in the art of persuasion annoy me when they keep saying my name. I am speaking of auto, furniture, appliance, etc sales. When I just happen to meet you saying my name several times in one visit is quite annoying. Its aggressive and I am not sure if the general public doesn’t notice this, but I would much rather just avoid the use of my name for a forced relationship. I love it when people are good at the art and remember your name the next time they see me, or after a purchase follow-up and use my name on a causal basis for future business, “Bill, how are you? I just wanted to see how you are liking your new car and see if you had any questions?” Of course this is a manipulative call, but I mind much less as the number of times my name is used is less. I would be interested to know what the threshold of using a name is. Because personally I don’t mind my name being dropped a couple of times, but once you say my name more than four or five times, it has an adverse effect. But, I consider myself a student of influence and persuasion, so its hard for me to determine as I often talk to sales people for the sport of it.

  • Jesus Goldberg

    Spiv…. couple of misplace phone calls turn your shorts in a wad and not the buy car… really!

  • Alan

    I’m with Spiv… Shortening your name doesn’t annoy you does it, Spiv..? :-)
    Nothing more infuriating than poorly trained sales people going hard at the sale, or should I say, hard at missing my sale…
    Using my name inappropriately, calling me ‘mate’, pretending to have some common ground through reflecting mannerisms… urghhh…
    Spiv, we’re on the same page. I love engaging sales people for ‘sport’… There is nothing more enjoyable; the phone rings, the wife cringes, I get all excited…. “What’s he selling? Pass me the phone…!”
    Goldberg, I would have been annoyed with this salesperson and his lack of concern for the sale (and the potential customer), displayed through his rude phone manner. I would have also felt an imporved position in the negotiation, as I would have been feeling happy to allow the purchase to slip, enabling me to push harder without fear…

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